Okay, I have three children. Two that are still home with me all day.
Could I have made my life more complicated, YES!
In a moment of insanity, we did get the cutest dog.
SAD to say she is now in her original home, awaiting another family.
I think that I had lost my mind. It is back!
It is possible to loose your mind under the spell of the cuteness of a puppy.
It wasn't about the training of a dog, but the attention that I couldn't ultimately give to my wonderful children. They would take a back seat to the puppy.
I cannot divide my attention that easily among it all.
I hoped to give it at least a week. BUT, my wise husband knew that it would not get easier so quickly. We could have adjusted but the stress level went from manageable to insane in one day.
WHY do something that is not required at this time?
Have a baby is one thing, but after 2 and a half days with a puppy. I thought I would go insane.
After caring for anything you grow to love it. Attachment happened quickly. She was a puppy that was eager to please and really wanted to be loved. So giving her back was a heartbreaking moment. One, that my Madi took hard at first. But I have been amazed at the level of maturity in which she has come to accept it.
"I am okay, mom, about the dog, we were happy before we got one, we didn't have her too long and we can be happy without one." Yes, a six year old said that to me this morning. WOW!
Alas, my sanity is restored to it's original state. Which isn't much to begin with. I have to hold onto what I have left.
Anyone out there who believes they can do it all. I advise that you cannot when it comes to a puppy and a young family. If you can do it, you have truly esteemed yourself my hero.
I think maybe if you want a dog, a potty trained one would be for the best.
If I loose my mind again, I think I would get an older pup, NO potty training needed.
That won't happen for years to come.
I am a dog lover with everything inside me. I may have to admire them from afar until my kids are old enough to not play with the puppy's bowl of food and water and become busier then even me, EVEN then I am little wiser.
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